Sex before marriage
Scripture’s test for sex is love, faithfulness, honesty, and care for the other person. Most churches still officially name marriage as its setting.
Sex, marriage, divorce, gender, and LGBTQ+ Christians, from Scripture and from the teaching of the Lutheran, Presbyterian, Methodist, and Episcopal churches that marry same-sex couples and ordain women.
Scripture’s test for sex is love, faithfulness, honesty, and care for the other person. Most churches still officially name marriage as its setting.
Gay and bisexual Christians belong fully to the church. The ELCA, PC(USA), United Methodist, and Episcopal churches ordain gay clergy and wed gay couples.
Six Bible passages mention same-sex acts. Mainline churches read them as condemning rape and exploitation, and they welcome faithful same-sex couples.
The Bible never mentions masturbation, and Onan’s sin was something else. Scripture’s concerns are lust, compulsion, and porn that exploits people.
Women serve as pastors, priests, and bishops in the mainline churches. Scripture names women as prophets, deacons, and apostles.
Scripture calls marriage lifelong and meets broken marriages with mercy. Mainline and Orthodox churches allow remarriage, and no one must stay in abuse.
Transgender Christians are made and loved by God. Scripture welcomes the eunuchs, and several mainline churches welcome trans people as members and clergy.
The Bible has no rules for dating, which did not exist in biblical times. Its teaching on love, honesty, consent, and respect fits every relationship.
Mainline churches permit IVF, and Scripture honors the longing of couples who face infertility. Unused embryos raise real moral questions.
Mainline churches leave birth control to the prayerful conscience of married couples. Anglican bishops accepted it in 1930, and most Protestants followed.
The United Methodist, ELCA, PC(USA), and Episcopal churches let their clergy marry same-sex couples and ordain gay and lesbian Christians.
The United Methodist, ELCA, PC(USA), and Episcopal churches ordain women as pastors and priests, and women serve as bishops and church leaders.
The United Methodist, ELCA, PC(USA), and Episcopal churches oppose discrimination against transgender people, and several have had transgender clergy.
The United Methodist, Lutheran (ELCA), Presbyterian (PC(USA)), and Episcopal churches teach that marriage is for life but allow remarriage after divorce.
Same-sex couples can marry in many churches. The ELCA, the PC(USA), the United Methodist Church, and the Episcopal Church let their clergy marry them.
Ephesians 5:21 tells all Christians to be subject to one another. In mainline wedding services, husband and wife make the same promises.
A Christian can marry a non-Christian. The mainline churches do not forbid it, and Paul told Christians to stay married to unbelieving spouses.
The ELCA, the PC(USA), the United Methodist Church, and the Episcopal Church ordain LGBTQ+ Christians as pastors, priests, and bishops.